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Dr. Garber provides continuing education training to educators, mental health, legal, and family law professionals around the world. Format (in-person, live video feed, and/or video-recorded), duration (two-day, one-day, keynote, or brief), and topic vary by audience need, timing, and resources.

Dr. Garber uses PowerPoint(TM) uniquely to capture complex concepts as easily understood visual metaphors. His presentations are entertaining, engaging, challenging, and practical. Across topics and settings and modalities, Dr. Garber's goal is to improve participants' here-and-now, hands-on ability to better understand and serve the needs of children.

Participants in upcoming trainings are encouraged to access conference-specific materials in advance of the conference date. These materials will remain available through the conference date for on-site access and following the conference date depending on the host's preferences.

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Is your group planning a
continuing education program?


Dr. Garber
will be glad to discuss possible formats, topics,
and how best to engage and educate your targeted audience.

Costs will include stipend, travel, room, board, and comfort when appropriate to format.
Dr. Garber's stipend will depend on your group's resources,
how much time will be required in preparation,
and how much time will be necessary away from the office.

When Dr. Garber travels to conduct trainings,
its often cost-efficient to schedule an advanced small group consultation prior to
(e.g., an informal breakfast Q and A) and/or following the large group event.


Examples of past
training events include:
Tune up your PPEs:
Innovations that can improve
efficiency, efficacy, and ecological validity


This very practical training helps evaluators improve parenting plan evaluation (PPE)
satisfaction, efficiency, efficacy, and ecological validity by integrating five
peer-reviewed, innovative process-oriented data collection methods.

TuneUp
Advance Orientation (AO)
improves efficacy, efficiency, ecological validity,
and consumer satisfaction


When consumers of a service participate in an advance orientation to that service,
they are more satisfied and the service is more efficient and effective. T
his program introduces ADVANCE ORIENTATION to family law
and the extensive research that demonstrates the value of
DEFUSE
divorce.com programming
.
 
Advance orientation
Resist/Refuse Dynamics
and the Polarized Child


Dr. Garber introduces an evaluative rubric that helps to minimize bias, avoid premature closure,
and assure that the full spectrum of dynamics and practical pressures are examined.
The "Five Factor Model" intended to determine the presence of alienating behaviors
is critiqued as biased and circular.



5
Sampling Relationship Dynamics:
Considering the goals and methods of
behavioral observations in CCEs


Evaluators are expected to rely upon diverse methods.
This full day training examines how best to realistically sample family relationships,
emphasizing a process-oriented protocol.


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Dynamics, not Diagnoses:
Focusing the family law lens on relationship "fit"


Mental health professionals working in family law often inadvertently apply the medical model
of individual diagnosis into the courtroom. Family law is about relationship dynamics,
not individual diagnoses. Of particular interest is the value of individual adult psychometrics
(i.e., tests, inventories) in family law matters.



2
Structure diminishes Anxiety:
Assessing and imposing roles, limits, boundaries,
and routines in conflicted family systems

Understanding the structures that define each family, the structures that define your practice,
and the structures inherent in the judicial system is critical to our success
evaluating and intervening in the best interests of each child.

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In-person?  Remote? Hybrid?


Reaching the largest audience possible benefits your group and your community.
Dr. Garber is comfortable in all three formats and invites creative solutions that
optimize professional participation and development.

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Can I record Dr. Garber's presentation
for later use?



In most cases, yes.
Terms and limits associated with technology may apply.


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Details matter


Dr. Garber is an engaged and engaging in-person speaker.
He very strongly prefers NOT to stand at a lectern
and instead prefers to walk among participants,
eliciting contributions and answering questions.
In many in-person settings, this requires a lavalier wireless microphone
and camera mobility when the program is video-recorded.

Distance programming (webinars)
are preferably hosted via ZoomTM.

Whenever possible, Dr. Garber will provide program participants with
advance access to relevant publications, assessment tools, and associated resources.

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DEFUSEdivorce.com
provides divorce- and custody-litigating parents
with online advance orientation to the many services
associated with the legal process.



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Dr. Garber is the proud creator and director of
DEFUSE
divorce.com
the place that parents go to put their children's needs first.




DEFUSEdivorce.com provides online education,
orientation, and resources to divorcing parents.


 
Research in medicine, nursing, dentistry, public health, psychotherapy,
genetics and numerous other fields has demonstrated that
advance orientation improves outcomes, efficiency, efficacy,
and consumer satisfaction.


Why
DEFUSEdivorce.com?

 
1. Divorce and custody litigation create anxiety.

2. Anxiety interferes with clear thinking.

3. Information diminishes anxiety.

4. DEFUSEdivorce.com provides litigants with a road map that makes the many services associated with the legal process make sense.

5. Diminished anxiety means
  • less conflict 
  • more likely and quicker resolution
  • less stress
  • less cost
  • healthier kids
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How do divorcing parents find
DEFUSEdivorce.com?


  • Courts order custody litigants to complete specific DEFUSEdivorce.com programs because  advance orientationimproves the efficacy and efficiency of interventions and evaluations.
  • Evaluators require parents to complete specific DEFUSEdivorce.com programs because  advance orientationdiminishes anxiety and thereby improves the ecological validity of the data collected.
  • Clinicians refer court-involved clients to DEFUSEdivorce.com programs because  educated consumers are more likely to feel heard, are more satisfied, and are less likely to suffer the stresses of litigation.
  • Court-involved parents refer themselves to DEFUSEdivorce.com programs because education, orientation, and resources benefit their children.

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DEFUSEdivorce.com
provides litigating parents
with online advance orientation to the many services 
associated with the legal process.



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It must not be construed as constituting legal, psychological, educational, or medical advice.
Decisions relevant to any specific individual, relationship, or family should be based on
the considered opinions of professionals familiar with the
unique culture, resources, strengths, and needs of those affected.







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