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Dr. Garber has  the privilege and responsibility of providing continuing education training to family law professionals across the United States and around the world. He is well-respected for his ability to communicate complex concepts in clear, practical terms, his unique integration of media, the scientific literature, and the law, and his engaging style. Participants take away new insights, hands-on skills, and practical tools that help to better understand and serve children's needs.

Dr. Garber tailors the content, duration, and medium of each training to group needs. For some this means a 1-hour webinar recorded and available to participants on an ongoing basis. For others this means a half-day, full-day, or 2-day live and interactive in-person event.

Training topics in family law correspond with Dr. Garber's areas of practice and publications. Some are illustrated below. Others can be created to suit your group's particular needs and interests.


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Is your group planning a
continuing education program?


Dr. Garber mixes current research in child development, family systems,

and psychological assessment with insight into the law
to
communicate and often challenge best practices.

Dr. Garber's work in courts around the world, as an evaluator, consultant,
and expert witness
together with his extensive professional publications combine
to make trainings challenging, cutting edge,
and hands-on
practical learning opportunities for all involved.


The nuts and bolts of
PPE report writing

Child custody evaluators commonly invest 40+ hours to generate comprehensive summaries of a conflicted family's dynamics  but seldom receive any feedback. Dr. Garber shares his detailed summary report describing Fred and Wilma Flintstones' very dysfunctional relationship and how best to understand Pebbles' needs. This program introduces the idea of frontloading questionnaires, the POOP observational protocol, and standardized methods of communicating family dynamics to parents, their lawyers, and the courts.
Nuts and bolts
Tune up your PPEs:
Innovations that can improve
efficiency, efficacy, and ecological validity
This very practical training helps evaluators improve parenting plan evaluation (PPE) satisfaction, efficiency, efficacy, and ecological validity by integrating five
peer-reviewed, innovative process-oriented data collection methods.
TuneUp
Advance Orientation (AO)
improves efficacy, efficiency, ecological validity,
and consumer satisfaction
When consumers of a service participate in an advance orientation to that service,
they are more satisfied and the service is more efficient and effective. This program introduces ADVANCE ORIENTATION to family law  professionals and the impressive research that demonstrates the value of programming available at DEFUSEdivorce.com.
Advance orientation
Resist/Refuse Dynamics
and the polarized child
Dr. Garber introduces an evaluative rubric that helps to minimize bias, avoid premature closure, and assure that the full spectrum of dynamics and practical pressures are examined. The "Five Factor Model" intended to determine the presence of alienating behaviors is critiqued as biased and circular.

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Sampling relationship dynamics:
Considering the goals and methods of
behavioral observations in CCEs

Evaluators are expected to rely upon diverse methods.
This full day training examines how best to realistically sample family relationships, emphasizing a process-oriented protocol.

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Dynamics, not diagnoses:
Focusing the family law lens on relationship "fit"

Mental health professionals working in family law often inadvertently apply the medical model of individual diagnosis into the courtroom. Family law is about relationship dynamics, not individual diagnoses. Of particular interest is the value of individual adult psychometrics (i.e., tests, inventories) in family law matters.
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Structure diminishes Anxiety:
Assessing and imposing roles, limits, boundaries,
and routines in conflicted family systems

Understanding the structures that define each family, the structures that define your practice, and the structures inherent in the judicial system is critical to our success evaluating and intervening in the best interests of each child.
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Letting the air out of your professional balloon:
Managing our own emotions and
modeling self-care for our clients
This work is hard.
Family law professionals are at very high risk of compassion fatigue, vicarious trauma, and burn-out, all of which trickles down to impact the people we serve. How do you let the air out of your balloon? How do you get refueled? How can you be a healthier model of self-care?
Self-care

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In-person?  Remote? Hybrid?


Reaching the largest audience possible benefits your group and your community.
Dr. Garber is comfortable in all three formats and invites creative solutions that
optimize professional participation and development.


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Can I record Dr. Garber's presentation for later use?


In most cases, yes.
Terms and limits associated with technology may apply.


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Costs and expenses


Costs will include stipend, travel, room, board, and comfort when appropriate to format.
Dr. Garber's stipend will depend on your group's resources,
how much time will be required in preparation,
and how much time will be necessary away from the office.

When Dr. Garber travels to conduct trainings,
its often cost-efficient to schedule an advanced small group consultation prior to
(e.g., an informal breakfast Q and A) and/or following the large group event.


Details matter


Dr. Garber is an engaged and engaging in-person speaker.
He very strongly prefers NOT to stand at a lectern
and instead prefers to walk among participants,
eliciting contributions and answering questions.
In many in-person settings, this requires a lavaliere wireless microphone
and camera mobility when the program is video-recorded.

Distance programming (webinars)
are preferably hosted via ZoomTM.

Whenever possible, Dr. Garber will provide program participants with
advance access to relevant publications, assessment tools, and associated resources.


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DEFUSEdivorce.com
provides divorce- and custody-litigating parents
with online advance orientation to the many services
associated with the legal process.



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Dr. Garber is the proud creator and director of
DEFUSE
divorce.com
the place that parents go to put their children's needs first.




DEFUSEdivorce.com provides online education,
orientation, and resources to divorcing parents.


 
Research in medicine, nursing, dentistry, public health, psychotherapy,
genetics and numerous other fields has demonstrated that
advance orientation improves outcomes, efficiency, efficacy,
and consumer satisfaction.


Why
DEFUSEdivorce.com?

 
1. Divorce and custody litigation create anxiety.

2. Anxiety interferes with clear thinking.

3. Information diminishes anxiety.

4. DEFUSEdivorce.com provides litigants with a road map that makes the many services associated with the legal process make sense.

5. Diminished anxiety means
  • less conflict 
  • more likely and quicker resolution
  • less stress
  • less cost
  • healthier kids
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How do divorcing parents find
DEFUSEdivorce.com?


  • Courts order custody litigants to complete specific DEFUSEdivorce.com programs because  advance orientationimproves the efficacy and efficiency of interventions and evaluations.
  • Evaluators require parents to complete specific DEFUSEdivorce.com programs because  advance orientationdiminishes anxiety and thereby improves the ecological validity of the data collected.
  • Clinicians refer court-involved clients to DEFUSEdivorce.com programs because  educated consumers are more likely to feel heard, are more satisfied, and are less likely to suffer the stresses of litigation.
  • Court-involved parents refer themselves to DEFUSEdivorce.com programs because education, orientation, and resources benefit their children.

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DEFUSEdivorce.com
provides litigating parents
with online advance orientation to the many services 
associated with the legal process.



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It must not be construed as constituting legal, psychological, educational, or medical advice.
Decisions relevant to any specific individual, relationship, or family should be based on
the considered opinions of professionals familiar with the
unique culture, resources, strengths, and needs of those affected.







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